"CAN WE BE HAPPY ALONE?"

"CAN WE BE HAPPY ALONE?"

What's the meaning of being alone. without any person ,without cell phones . Can you?

In this digital world where people on instagram, facebook, twitter ,whatsapp, etc. Post their pictures stories reflectiing their happiness ,sucess , achievements,etc with hi-fi emojis showing how happy they are. Emojis of faces with they can never make in reality though. In this fake world how true are we to our own self..Are we really happy? As much we tend to me?or happy like a kid when they get a new toy they love it until they find or get a better toy. Are we independently happy or Our happiness is depended on someone it can be anyone parents, friends, colleagues, spouse,mobile phone,etc.

"What kind of person you want to be ?"

Theres two type of people's one who solitude and the other is loneliness(confussed,feared)

The person with solitude attitude will always be absolutely happy, absolutely comfortable,absolutely safe,completely secured without any possession. That if someone there or not. They don't care .Being in a state where you don't need anyone or anything to be happy you are happiness isn't depended .A person with solitude attitude can give you freedom, because he/she or himself/herself are free from insecurities fears. A person who is himself /herself is confused can't give you freedom because they are stuck in loneliness what if I get lonely in the world and the What if's.

The person with lonliness will always be disappointed,dettachment ,negativity,fear (the what if's e.g..what if she left me or he leave me).Which brings insecurity possesion, the other start feeling them dominant or bossy.

So, among both with what kind of person you would like to be ?

The one who is happily inside or the one from outside.Peace , happiness comes within.

AND THE UTMOST QUESTION IS WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU "SOLITUDE" OR "FEARED(LONELY)."

Like this we also do in our relations also rather than looking backward we can forgive and bring acceptance being stuck in past ll only make things miserable. We all live in past more than our present. We dont accept. Acceptance comes with courage while blaming is easy we keep pointing others but do we ever point us our thinking our perception.?

You need acceptance, you need to move forward to be eternally happy not from outside but from inside as well..you need to accept your flaws only them you can be "absolutely flawless."

Even after being solitude does things affects you. Do you feel bad seeing other happy.Then did you truly followed or been solitude?

And we never realise that accrptance is easier than regretting.

Anger and negativity are destructive while possitivity comes with constructivity.

"The battle we have while following solitude and why."

Have you ever try to sit alone for an hour without cell phone without anyone. Without feeling lonely or irritated. Without thinking to check cell phone or negative thoughts. No, we can't . All thoughts starts jumbling, we get into a rat race of our own thoughts. But have anyone of us ever thought WHY. like why am just trying to meditate think about my own life.then why am so disturbed? why it is so disturbing. Like this things 'll get worse or better. What am I doingUNDERSTANDING or FOLLOWING. Am i Realising the fact that yes"I am suffering". Am I accepting and move ahead positively. WITHOUT getting addicted with drugs, alcohols,smoke cos bad things are easy to adapt than the righteous." An empty mind is the place of a devil.

Conclusion:
The problem isn't outside you it's inside you. If you want to behappy you can be. Everything is in your mind.

First you are in a lecture but you are lost in your own world in your own thoughts or disturbed if someones pencil fallen down you turn behind to see what happened. second is youre into lectures. Being engrossed in it.Without any disturbance because your mind is at peace. Same goes with everything.

I hope you all like it.♡